Josh Gad Talks Daughter 'Bawling' Over Growing Up at 2020 Oscars: 'It Was So Heartbreaking'

Josh Gad is opening up more about the touching moment his older daughter cried over having to grow up, and how it inspired his character Olaf’s journey in Frozen 2.

In a conversation with E! on the red carpet at the 2020 Oscars on Sunday, Gad said his now-9-year-old daughter Ava Tanya “had a bit of a coming-of-age incident when she was about 5 years old and we happened to catch it on tape.”

“She started bawling when she was having dinner with us one day and she realized, in that moment, that she was gonna grow up one day,” added the actor and singer, 38.

“She said, ‘What if I don’t want to grow up?’ and she started crying and it was so heartbreaking, and that sort of inspired the seed that became Olaf’s trajectory in the sequel,” shared Gad, whose film’s hit tune “Into the Unknown” is up for the Original Song award.

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View this post on Instagram Four years ago, during dinner one night our beautiful little girl had a huge epiphany that shook her to her core…we all have to grow up. This heartbreaking moment is something I never shared publicly before because it was so personal. Our Nanny at the time, Sara, did such a remarkable job helping guide her through this difficult “coming of age” moment and I constantly look back at it as a reminder of the fragility of youth and our struggle to make sense of our place in this rapid world. It just so happens that I shared this video with our brilliant Frozen 2 team at the time and said, I believe this should be Olaf’s journey in Frozen 2. I’m beyond grateful they felt the same way because growing up is so very hard and all of us have this moment at some point in our lives. I’m also beyond thankful that we were able to capture such a monumental moment and that I can share it now with all of you who either have children or were once children asking that very same question…”why do I have to be a grownup?” Hope you take from it as much as I have. As a side note, that is the voice of my other child in the bg missing the plot completely and focusing instead on watching a DVD of “Peter Pan.”

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Gad shared the clip to his Instagram feed last month, which showed little Ava sobbing when she fully realized she wouldn’t be a child forever. Her nanny Sara could be heard soothing her from behind the camera, saying, “You’re gonna be a kid for so long! You got lots and lots of time to be a kid. … You’re only 5!”

The Avenue 5 actor gave a little background on the video in his caption, writing, “Four years ago, during dinner one night our beautiful little girl had a huge epiphany that shook her to her core … we all have to grow up. This heartbreaking moment is something I never shared publicly before because it was so personal.”

The father of two went on to recall that he shared the clip with “our brilliant Frozen 2 team at the time and said, I believe this should be Olaf’s journey in Frozen 2.”

And Gad’s request was granted. In the movie, the snowman he helped make famous with his exuberant voice portrayal grapples with unavoidable change and the idea of growing up. His hilarious solo song, “When I Am Older,” even addresses this topic.

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Gad also opened up to E! on Sunday about working with the Walt Disney Company (he also played LeFou in 2017’s live-action Beauty and the Beast), and how being “the father of two daughters that are able to grow up with Anna and Elsa as a source of influence to them is so incredible to watch firsthand.”

“To play a character like Olaf who seemingly has stuck everyone from 2 to 92 is a dream come true,” he said. “I remember going to the theater and watching movies like Aladdin, Beauty and the Beast and Little Mermaid and saying, ‘Ah! How cool would it be to do that one day?’ ”

The 92nd Annual Academy Awards are airing live on ABC from the Dolby Theatre in Hollywood on Feb. 9.